• During my childhood the tragic murder of my great uncle in 1935 by Chinese bandits was never mentioned within the family, as it was obviously still too distressing for Gareth’s remaining relatives, my grandmother Eirian, my aunt Gwyneth as well as my mother Siriol.
• It was whilst clearing Gwyneth’s home in 1988, after which she moved in with her younger sister, my grandmother, that a small briefcase was discovered which contained every ‘weekly’ letter that Gareth had sent to his parents from university through to his far off travels, plus about 20 or 30 innocuous, journalist pocket diaries, which to us telling a family story were far less important than his weekly letters and were therefore overlooked, except for his final ones from China…